Mary Alice Schabarum

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Mary Alice Schabarum

August 10, 1935 - May 01, 2018

It is with great sadness that the family of Mary Schabarum announces her unexpected passing on May 1, 2018 at her home in Mesa, at the age of 82 years. Mary will be forever remembered by her three daughters, Sarah, Lisa and Tonya; their father Bruno (Rihab); her sister Julie (Doug); her niece Becky (Chris); two grandnieces; former spouse and continued friend Bill; good friend Bob and many more extended family and good friends. Mary was preceded in death by her parents.

Mary was born in New Ulm, Minnesota on August 10, 1935. She was the older of two daughters born to Joseph Leonard and Alice America (Halsey) Dietz. Mary entered school in St. Louis, Missouri and completed the 3rd through 12th grades in Tracy, MN. She attended St. Catherine's College in St. Paul, Minnesota where she completed a BA in Music, Theology and English. In 1956, she entered the order of St. Joseph's Sisters of Carondelet, whom she served for 6 years as Sister Lauren. In 1965, Mary earned a master's degree in Counseling at Oklahoma State University. Following her graduation, Mary moved to Arizona and spent two years as a school counselor at South Mountain High School in Phoenix. In 1967, she married Dr. Bruno Schabarum with whom she had three daughters, Sarah, Lisa and Tonya. Since their births, Mary spent her time providing lives filled with love and laughter for her children. Mary was also briefly married to William Taylor, with whom she remained friends until her death.

At various times Mary also worked as a mediator for special education students, and served in many charitable roles, including on the MARC board, as a Docent at the Musical Instrument Museum (MIM) and in many positions within her church. Mary has been a devoted parishioner at St. Bridget Catholic Church in Mesa since its founding in 1985. Prior to that, she attended Christ the King Roman Catholic Church.

Mary had many passions and earned the friendship of a variety of wonderful people with whom she shared those interests. She was an accomplished pianist. She enjoyed music, singing, dancing and travel. She was an avid reader and her Book Club will miss her dearly. She was a friend of Bill W. for nearly 37 years and was also active in her Wednesdays Women's Group.

The family invites all who knew Mary to a memorial service at Leisure World (Power & Southern in Mesa) on Wednesday, May 9th at 2 pm. The service will be held in the Club Room of Recreation Center #1.

A Funeral Mass will also be held at 10 am on Friday, May 25th at St. Bridget Catholic Church (2213 N Lindsay Rd, Mesa, AZ 85213). All are welcome to attend, with a reception to follow.

Memorial donations in memory of Mary can be made to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul and sent to SVdP c/o St. Bridget Catholic Church, 2213 N Lindsay Rd, Mesa, AZ 85213.
Published on May 7, 2018
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Memorial service

Wednesday 09 May

2:00 PM - 4:00 PM

Leisure World, Club Room, Recreation Center #1

Power & Southern, Mesa AZ

Funeral service

Friday 25 May

10:00 AM

St. Bridget Catholic Church

2213 North Lindsay Road, Mesa, AZ, USA


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Jun 02, 2018
My deep condolences. May you turn to the Most High God Jehovah for strength and comfort in this difficult time of Sorrow. Acts 24 :15 "there's is going to be a resurrection " God promise us that we will see our love one's again.
Kay (Nelson) Calvin and husband, Jim Calvin
May 23, 2018
Mary Alice and I were in high school together and shared experiences in band, chorus, and numerous other activities. So sorry to hear of her passing.
May 09, 2018
I loved the time I spent with you & ALL the family❗♥♥♥ R.I. P. Sweet lady, Forever in my heart ♥♥♥
Amy Emkes
May 08, 2018
I had the pleasure of meeting Mary while i was assisting her three beautiful daughters. She was a very kind and loving person.
May 07, 2018
My Aunt Mary was quite possibly the strongest woman I will ever know. It has been amazing to talk with all the people who cared about her and really feel the love so many had for her.